...yeah, I can be a dick or nice guy and think/feel whatever I want, but behaviours and actions are different...some of the stuff I as a jerk/homophobe/racist/antisemitic/whatever/ might want to do is not legal, or just not nice, and that part has to be controlled, but me thinking jerk stuff, while unwholesome and only going to make me more of a narrow jerk, is not forbidden by anybody except some religions or advisors...