I have run into this opportunity for growth too in life. And hopefully it is one that we remember.

I was reminded several years ago by a dude, "yep, a real dude", who suggested that I just learn to "let go." Ironically I have reminded him to do so himself on a occasion since that time.

Exams behind you? Breath. Or as the physical therapist told the pt, "smell the flowers, blow out the candles..."

peace,

J.