Boy do YOU ask a lot of questions!! Good ones, too.
I certainly have opinions about everything you ask. So opinionated.... that I keep it under wraps most of the time.
It appears to me that sexuality occurs on a spectrum, and that a great deal of sexual preference is culturally guided and unconsciously accepted as the way it is. I think that a fully healthy human is simply "sexual" and that sexuality can be expressed in a wide range of ways. As long as it is pleasurable it is up for grabs. If it is procreative it opens a whole bag of worms that is dictated by evolution and biology for the species to continue. When predilections are not procreative there can be many motivators, most commonly comfort and proximity. There are also endocrine correlates with preferences that are not well studied because it is so unPC to suggest. It will be eventually. We have the technology.
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I certainly have opinions about everything you ask. So opinionated.... that I keep it under wraps most of the time.
It appears to me that sexuality occurs on a spectrum, and that a great deal of sexual preference is culturally guided and unconsciously accepted as the way it is. I think that a fully healthy human is simply "sexual" and that sexuality can be expressed in a wide range of ways. As long as it is pleasurable it is up for grabs. If it is procreative it opens a whole bag of worms that is dictated by evolution and biology for the species to continue. When predilections are not procreative there can be many motivators, most commonly comfort and proximity. There are also endocrine correlates with preferences that are not well studied because it is so unPC to suggest. It will be eventually. We have the technology.