For Solstice I'm going to an ecstatic dance, then spending the longest night of the year with my lover. On the 23rd he gets surgery on his shoulder, and I'll be caring for him on the 23-24th. On the 25th his almost-legally-ex wife and son have his time and attention, and I will be at home. I was going to do my traditional "Xmas brunch for Pagans" on the morning of the 25th but I can't seem to find anybody who wants to share that time....so we shall see. There is another ecstatic dance on the morning of the 25th so that may be the plan.

That's probably a lot more answer than you needed. What you are up to?