OK. I get your point, and agree that to have a civil society a degree of cultural competency is necessary. I also agree that there is no necessity in me knowing about your autism or 12 step work. It does increase my interest in you as a person, though. Glad you're on my friends list even though I don't "know" you at all.

PS: I have worked the 12 steps. It was a highly useful exercise in my process of growing up.